How to Explore Your Money Story
Let’s get straight down to business and talk about money so hold the line!
Money and wealth have picked up such disdain with words like greed and shame but there is a shift happening now in our understanding of wealth but also its distribution. As you may have heard me say many times, money in the hands of good women will change the world!
With major shifts in consciousness happening lets bring it back to the practicalities - money is energy, and in our old paradigm we trade our time for money and this money is then spent on life's necessities with the bit extra accumulating for holidays, a new sitting room, etc but typically not enough for you to majorly expand into your higher purpose, right?
I was in the model, I climbed the ladder and I earned a tonne of money, at one point I didn’t even need to check my account to go and book a luxury detox retreat in Thailand or whatever but there was something deeper missing that I didn’t speak of much as I would have sounded like an ungrateful bitch but in truth I was unfulfilled and I was using all of my skill and talents building someone else’s dreams with not much left for me!
So one thing that really made me seek a new way, and it took time for that penny to drop but it was asking myself, what was the EXPENSE of climbing the ladder, to our health and relationships! I was single a lot of the time (surprise, surprise) but even with an ex we used to talk about the deeper meaning of it all and what keeps us all on the wheel - MONEY and FEAR, fear of failure, fear of being judged, fear of going first and fear of being poor!
So let me ask you some questions,
What would you do today if money was not an option?
Grab a notepad and write all of them down.
Then ask yourself,
What would I do if I was not afraid?
What brings me joy?
When am I happiest?
Let it all flow and then go back and read it again, highlight what really lights your soul up and start taking action on it.
What often surprises people is that many of the things they love doing are actually FREE but the problem is they don’t have enough TIME and this is the real opportunity cost of the old system which many are feeling right now, hence The Great Resignation.
I started to feel so rich and abundant once I claimed back my time and creativity, and it has brought me so much fulfilment, but I am open for the money too.
So let’s talk about the new way forward, we see so many setting up businesses and talking about WEALTH, LEGACY etc and hitting 10k weeks and I am sure this is triggering for many, when I saw other entrepreneurs banging on about how much money they were making it triggered the AF out of me, with dialogues like
“God they are so in their ego, how can they be heart lead and want to make an impact if they are just preaching about the money”
Spot the money mindset block there please!
So thankfully I love triggers (now) because it highlights where I need to do the work and when I do, I accelerate, so if you are avoiding something, this is your invitation to get trigger happy!
When I sat with this I had such appreciation for the women rising up
They were showing others what is POSSIBLE
What I would like to see more of though is what generating wealth means, because any client I ever speak to, particularly when looking at money blocks and wealth creation through hypnosis, and what hitting a certain revenue goal means, and for 99% of them, freedom not materialism or greed. They want
Money to give their kids more opportunity
Money so they can leave a failing marriage
Money to leave their full time job and live their purpose
Money to hire a team to help them expand the reach of their purpose
This is the initial answer MOST OF THE TIME, it is rooted in freedom and connection and ultimately allowing us to serve our souls true purpose and activate our higher self and this is when there is major ripple effect.
So let all of this marinate, as money blocks and money trauma run generations deep and this is your invitation to reflect and see where you can heal and grow.
If you would like to go deeper into understanding money trauma and learn how to nurture your nervous system for wealth then check out my latest episode on The Rise and Flow Podcast where I interview the amazing Loretta Kennedy aka Wild Alchemy who is a Money Trauma Facilitator and Intuitive Coach. I absolutely loved recording this episode with Loretta as it has so much practical information on identifying money trauma and how to move into abundance but also vulnerable stories from us both you may resonate with.
Here is to rising together!
